Karan Samuels of Newville, Penn., identifies as white and Cherokee Indian and is the mother of eight children, whose father is African American:
鈥淓very day, my kids were coming home telling me that kids called them 鈥榮tupid N-word鈥 and harassed them about being biracial. The harassment made them not want to participate in activities that other kids take part in; my kids were afraid.鈥
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Yolanda Abel of Baltimore, Md., a 41-year-old single parent of a 12-year-old African American daughter, Akila:
鈥淎kila came home from school one day and asked me when I鈥檓 going to get married. I told her, jokingly, 鈥業鈥檓 going to marry you.鈥 She looked at me and said, 鈥楪irls can鈥檛 marry each other.鈥濃 Yolanda took that opportunity to explain that sometimes people fall in love with people who are the same sex 鈥 and about the fact that it鈥檚 OK not to marry.